Everything happens for a reason

I didn't get a job at my favourite place in the world
Now no matter how hard I try I can't get a job anywhere else
I lost my best friend in the whole world without even getting to say Good bye
My diploma marks were no where as good as I was hoping for
Every guy I've liked this year had totally screwed me over and made me feel like shit and a loser

People keep telling me to believe that everything happens for a reason
But could someone PLEASE tell me the reason why I can't name three good things that have happened to me this year???